a very adult space
Long nsfw post warninggggg
I've been saying this lately and my partner has been saying it too. There should totally be places where adults can hang out, relax, and ,if they want, have a discussion about boundaries, goals, and expectations, and engage in some casual intimacy.
Just an environment without shame or pressure, with tools to help people make these connections in a way that makes it less stressful.
A really neat example is in the 3rd book of the Wayfares Series (huge reccomend). There are places where you can go, give a clerk your preferences and what you're looking for, and then have a nice evening with a sex worker who is professional and works to make you feel comfortable. Either one of you can stop at any point and it's a very respectful environment.
And in the book these are just places you can go, fully subsidized as a public service and regulated, everyone knows about them and it's just a regular part of society!
Now those books are science fiction and the setting this specific book takes place in is a post-capital society where public needs are met. Now I think one day we can get there, but obviously what I want here isn't something you can just drop into every city and expext everyone to be normal about it.
But this is my blog damn it and there should be a place where I can go, have a nice time, give cute people oral, and relax! I wanna indulge and make someone moan and feel their legs shake while I zone out and pleasure them!
I wish it were easier to find like-minded people who could just be like,"Damn kinda wanna get railed today", and we all are just like, hell yeah, hope you do!
Anyway this is a long post to say I've been craving giving oral and I wanna vibe with other horny queer people who wouldn't mind casually receiving oral. <3